Sunday Magazine (the supplement to Sydney’s Sunday Telegraph) published an in-depth interview with Alex O’Loughlin in their May 2nd issue. Alex talks about the past, present and future and reveals more about himself in his own refreshing way.
The article is not available online (yet), therefore I have transcribed it. Scans have been added to the gallery and if you missed it earlier, check out the behind-the-scenes video of the photoshoot!
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Story: Joanne Hawkins
He’s been dubbed Australia’s ‘next big thing’ more times than J-Lo’s been called a diva. But, as her onscreen love interest, can Alex O’Loughlin finally scrap his own back-up plans?
Alex O’Loughlin loves his job. “It’s the best job in the world,” he exclaims on more than one occasion. And on the surface, it’s hard to disagree.
The 33-year-old lives in Hollywood, has starred in a string of TV shows in the US and has hung out at Jennifer Lopez’s Long Island mansion. It’s a long way from unblocking drains as a teenager in the middle of a cold Canberra winter. “That was my worst job,” he remembers. “I was covered in sh*t, having a rotten time. I vowed, ‘One day, I will not clean up other people’s poo.”
But appearances can be deceptive. The Hollywood home is rented and the shows have a chequered history. Cult series Moonlight – in which O’Loughlin played vampire Mick St John – suffered a drawn-out death after one season. The actor had high opes for his turn as a heart transplant surgeon in Three Rivers, but its life support was switched off in January. (You may have glimpsed it on Network Ten in October, before they yanked it off-air after one episode.)
In spite of this, the NIDA graduate, who rose to prominence in Australia after playing the troubled Jack Flange in the film Oyster Farmer, believes he’s been fortunate. “To be honest, I think I’ve been really lucky to work at all,” he says quietly. “It’s hard out there.”
Still, things could be looking up for O’Loughlin (pronounced O’Lachlan, and spelt that way until he reportedly changed it to honour his late grandfather). This month sees him star in his first big-budget Hollywood film, The Back-up Plan, opposite the aforementioned J-Lo. Tired of waiting for Mr Right, her character, Zoe, is artifically inseminated through a sperm bank, before, rather inconveniently, falling for O’Loughlin’s Stan. The rom-com is her first film since becoming a mum to twins and anticipation is high. Surely this will be O’Loughlin’s big break?
“I hope so. But I have to maintain perspective, because that’s the only thing that gets me through the gaps of unemployment,” he muses, running his hand through hair flecked with grey. “I always say to myself, ‘This moment will pass,’ whether it’s good, bad or indifferent.
“I think people are going to see the film because they haven’t seen Jennifer for a while. She’s really good, and everyone’s happy with what I did, so, hopefully, that will equate to more work for me. But, right now, it’s business as usual. I’m reading scripts and spending time with my family. And growing a beard,” he grins.
As for working with the artist reportedly renowned for her demanding behaviour, O’Loughlin says he didn’t see any evidence of it. “Never once. She’s a class act. She’s ‘Mama’ to her bubs, who were on the set a lot. And my son [Saxon, 12] was there a lot too. It was lovely. I’d heard stories about her being a diva. Maybe she was a pain in the arse when she was younger. I was,” he laughs.
This is my second interview with O’Loughlin – the first was for the 2005 release of Oyster Farmer – and although still friendly, he’s more guarded now, especially when it comes to his relationships. He split from singer/actor Holly Valance in 2009, after almost four years, and declines to name his current “lady friend”, but rumour is, he’s dating his former Three Rivers co-star, Aussie actor Amber Clayton. “She’s a beautiful girl,” is all he’ll say. “I’m really enjoying spending time with her. But relationships are hard. That stuff I keep pretty close to my chest because it’s no one’s business.”
We’ve caught up during one of O’Loughlin’s trips back home. “Australia will always be home,” he muses, gazing at the view from the city skyscraper. “You feel it in your stomach and your heart. But LA has become home as well.
“Because of how my life has panned out, I’ve had to learn to adapt,” he says, alluding to the fact his parents split when he was two and he spent his childhood shuffling between Canberra and Sydney. “I went to a lot of schools and lived in a lot of places, so I learnt to make a little sanctuary whenever I was.”
Earlier, he piled on the affable charm at our photoshoot, winning over the team with his easy-going attitude and self deprecating wit. It was probably the same charisma that won over Lopez, who had the ultimate casting vote on her co-star.
Director Alan Poul says it was important to find someone who could hold his own against Lopez: “We had to make sure she didn’t overpower the guy. Alex has a gravity in what he brings to the screen.”
Convinced he’d found his man, Poul flew O’Loughlin to Lopez’s Long Island home for a once-over. “I’m not going to pretend he wasn’t nervous – who wouldn’t be?” recalls Poul.
“But Alex is so naturally charming, he knew when to concede the floor to her. There’s a cheekiness he turns on with great charm. And he’s not in it for fame or money; he’s in it because he loves acting.”
O’Loughlin was bitten by the performing bug while doing a school play. “I found it amazing, but I never thought I could do it as a career.” He says he spent his teenage years “drinking and bumming” out, and then a series of dead-end jobs followed – including that sting as a plumber. Acting wasn’t considered, until a friend intervened.
“We were watching the footy and I was commentating in a Roy and HG-style, and everyone was laughing,” O’Loughlin recalls. “At half-time, [my mate] asked what I was doing. I quipped, ‘Preparing my second act’. But he said angrily, ‘No, I’m serious. What are you doing? You have a talent and it’s so frustrating to see you do nothing about it.”
After some commercials, 22-year-old O’Loughlin was accepted into NIDA. But it wasn’t an easy decision to go back to school, especially as he’d become a dad to Saxon at age 20. “I told his mum I wasn’t going to have much money for three years, but she was like, ‘Just do it.’”
The couple split when Saxon was young and O’Loughlin agonised over his move to the US in 2005. “Part of me was saying, ‘You can’t go and live in another country when your son is back home.’ But another part was saying, ‘You only have one chance.’” (Nowadays, Saxon is a regular visitor to his dad in the US. “We’re very close. My whole world revolves around that little bloke.”)
The Aussie did it tough in LA at first. He’d had a leading role in the mini-series about [transported convict] Mary Bryant and thought he was on his way, but Hollywood had other ideas. “I must have done 250 auditions that year,” he says. “I was like, ‘Why won’t anyone employ me?’ I questioned myself, my talent and my capacity to exist in this industry.”
So, what stopped him booking a ticket home? “A belief in myself and not wanting to let my son down. I also thought of my grandfather. He was a tough old bastard from the Snowys. I’d hear his voice saying, ‘Stop moping. Shut up and just get on with it.’”
The actor is refreshingly – some might say foolishly – honest about his ability: “I’m not a great talent. I’m a medium talent, but I have a good work ethic. I’ll work because of that. But I knew I had to chase it.”
Peter Andrikidis, who directed him in Mary Bryant and likens him to Russell Crowe, disagrees: “[Alex] has had a hard life. But what makes a great actor is when they bring that life experience to the screen.”
O’Loughlin recently finished shooting a pilot for a remake of Hawaii Five-0, in which he plays Detective Steve McGarrett. If the series gets the green-light, this could prove to be his year. But if not, that’s OK, too, because this former plumber will just keep plugging away.
“I love my job and life, but if it all goes wrong, I’ll come back to Australia to dig holes while I work out what to do next. Outside of the people I love, nothing else matters. This is just icing on the cake.”
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Sorry Alex! I have to disagre with you on this: you are an extremely talented fellow adn yes, far better than RC because you’re a gentleman. Good luck to you!
Is a very interesting interview, Alex appears charming and sincere, a true gentleman, and I hope that he never change.
, is a wonderful man with feet on the ground, I think that Alex is so big as person as very soon he will be as an actor.
The more I know him more admire him
Mizz thanks for taking the time to transcribe this great article to us, as always thank you very much
Thank you Mizz – this is such a wonderful article. There is nothing about this man that I don’t love and appreciate. He didn’t have it easy and he’s had to work hard for everything he’s achieved. I love that his director compared him to Russell Crowe. Alex does have that much talent and unlike Russell he won’t throw phones at people!
Thank you Mizz. Alex is beyond special. I have never seen the likes of him in the talent and class department. With his passion, goodness, brains and work ethic there’s no way he won’t succeed big time. I so appreciate him putting himself out there and sharing himself with us.
Thank you Mizz. This is such an incredibly honest and wonderful interview of Alex O’Loughlin. I applaud Alex O’Louhglin’s love, devotion and closeness to his son and family. His excellent performances in films and television shows reveal his hard work and dedication, putting his heart, soul and true life experiences. It definitely shows that Alex loves to be an actor. This is the first time I’ve read about Alex’s current love interest, fellow Aussie actor, Amber Clayton, who played Dr. Lisa, on Three Rivers. I wish him and Amber lots of luck. I love this interview.
What a beautiful interview mizz, I am in awe! I guess I just have to read it again!! Thank you!
Great article, scans and video Mizz!
He has the amazing ability to look so different all the time.
Listening to him talking about people thinking he’s different makes me sad for him.
I admire his close relationship with Saxon and hope he finds a special lady to share his life with, he so deserves it.
And I would agree with Peter, Alex is so not a medium talent! I’m looking forward to H50 being picked up and Alex back on our TV screens in the fall!
Boy, Alex sure lets his hair down when he’s back home… here in the interview and especially in the video. I wish we could telepath a group hug to him to let him know how loved he is. Thank you for the great insight into this talented and gorgeous man!